Have you told yourself before that it is fate that you did not get into a good school or did not get good grades for certain subjects? And you think that there is nothing you can do about it?
I have always believed that fate keeps people from changing their lives for the better. It removes all possibilities that one can achieve. By saying fate to your life only means that you do not wish to do something about it. It is just meant to be. If you are fated to be a genius in studies, then no matter how lazy you are and whatever you do, you will end up scoring straight 'A's for your exams. If you are fated to be a failure in studies, then you are very unlucky. No matter how how hard you work, it will all be taken away. But you know all these are not true. That's no such thing as fate cannot be changed. When you believe in fate, it means that you have absolutely no control over the outcomes in your life. For the people that went to fortune tellers to ask about their fate in life, they have 2 choices after hearing their fate:
1) To change it!
2) Live with it.
One of the causes is because they do not plan for your future path. They walk blindly and believing all the stuffs that makes them feel good. For example, people who went for driving test. Those who fail will usually say it was not their fault. They blame it on the lousy car they are in, on the heavy traffic, on the heavy rain, on the drivers on the road, on the strict tester, etc. They blame the whole galaxy except themselves! Some even resigned to fate after failing numerous times!
Is driving that hard? NO! It is because they do not learn from their mistakes. They always think they are right. I heard of rumors like: "there is a fixed number of people that can pass every month, so you must book your driving test at the start of the month to have higher chance of passing", "do not book the first session for driving test as the testers are still in sleeping mode and will get agitated easily".
What reasons are those? There is no such thing as fixed number of people passing every month and no sleeping testers! If you are really good, there is no reason to fail you!
Back to studies, I strongly believe that every student out there can achieve straight 'A's! There is no such fate that you have no talent in study! There will be a way to achieve those 'A's!
I have always believed that fate keeps people from changing their lives for the better. It removes all possibilities that one can achieve. By saying fate to your life only means that you do not wish to do something about it. It is just meant to be. If you are fated to be a genius in studies, then no matter how lazy you are and whatever you do, you will end up scoring straight 'A's for your exams. If you are fated to be a failure in studies, then you are very unlucky. No matter how how hard you work, it will all be taken away. But you know all these are not true. That's no such thing as fate cannot be changed. When you believe in fate, it means that you have absolutely no control over the outcomes in your life. For the people that went to fortune tellers to ask about their fate in life, they have 2 choices after hearing their fate:
1) To change it!
2) Live with it.
One of the causes is because they do not plan for your future path. They walk blindly and believing all the stuffs that makes them feel good. For example, people who went for driving test. Those who fail will usually say it was not their fault. They blame it on the lousy car they are in, on the heavy traffic, on the heavy rain, on the drivers on the road, on the strict tester, etc. They blame the whole galaxy except themselves! Some even resigned to fate after failing numerous times!
Is driving that hard? NO! It is because they do not learn from their mistakes. They always think they are right. I heard of rumors like: "there is a fixed number of people that can pass every month, so you must book your driving test at the start of the month to have higher chance of passing", "do not book the first session for driving test as the testers are still in sleeping mode and will get agitated easily".
What reasons are those? There is no such thing as fixed number of people passing every month and no sleeping testers! If you are really good, there is no reason to fail you!
Back to studies, I strongly believe that every student out there can achieve straight 'A's! There is no such fate that you have no talent in study! There will be a way to achieve those 'A's!
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